College Is Notorious For Being A Time Of Change - 1479 Words

College is notorious for being a time of change, where you will meet your best friends and have the best four years of your life. You’ll be on your own, without parents, and the only person you will have to answer to is yourself. You can honestly make your college experience whatever you want it to be, and that is what makes college so unique and special. But, that is also what makes college so dangerous. There is no guide to go through college, no sure fire way to have the best experience possible, it is truly all up to the individual. But the media has a huge impact on how we view our college experience, and what it should look life. Through movies, articles and pictures we see on social media, we already have a foggy image of what†¦show more content†¦Men’s Constant Urge For Sex Men are perceived to have a huge sex drive, one that makes teenage men crave the idea of sex. Boys grow up hearing about how all men are ‘horn dogs’ who just want to hav e sex and then move onto the next relationship. It’s almost become a shock when a male in his teens tells someone he’s a virgin. Sex for guys, it’s natural after-all, because that is what the media directly tells us (Firminger 2006: 304). This breads this idea that this is all men care about, and all that a guy desires. (Firminger 2006) states that girls then see this in the media, and ask questions in order to understand what guys like more in girls, such as the size of a girls breast, hair color, eye color, height, and weight. This idea of what guys are perceived to like is clearly outlined in Total Frat Moves â€Å"50 Ways to be the Perfect College Girlfriend†. Bullet points 46-50 read â€Å"46. Morning blowjobs. 47. Afternoon blowjobs. 48. Evening blowjobs. 49. Did I mention blowjobs? 50. Be spontaneous. Refer to #46-49 for ideas† (TFM 2013). Girls will then see this media and consume it, and they will have this idea that this is what guys want and this is what they have to do in order to impress a guy and be the â€Å"perfect college girlfriend†. The article also states that â€Å"We (men) hate condoms, and everyone hates